My husband cheated on me about a year ago. Granted, he was drinking a lot that night and really does not remember any of the details. He does remember waking up next to an old girlfriend though, who was equally as mortified. I do believe them when they say it was a one time thing that neither of them wanted to happen. I know my husband loves me. He quit drinking because of this, and he is never alone with his ex now. I was not able to move past it though until I saw https://www.carolinebronte.co.uk/counselling/maidenhead/, which is a website for a therapist in our town.
I wanted to forgive my husband, and I honestly believe that I did. It was moving on that was the hard part for me. He did everything he could to make it up to me, but I was just stuck with mental images that hurt me so deeply. I knew that we needed professional help if either one of us was to move on from this. I found the therapist very refreshing, and she was nothing like what I expected. I thought she was going to start off with what happened that night, but she didn’t.… Read More..